posted on January 26, 2001 12:21:37 PM new
mimigigi - I want to go skip up and down the street
This makes me feel really good, thanks.
You really can change all the problems with a slight tilt of your head and the new perspective it gives.
Get a bead on where you want to go and how you are going to get there and after that, just live.
We are so powerful. All of us.
posted on January 26, 2001 12:43:05 PM new
Stopping by to catch up (yet again) and to say hello VeryModern (I still want to change your name to VerySpecial)!. I am feeling a bit like a newborn child with my new tools - I am exploring all the possibilities and feel really good too!
Rawbunzel
I would be honored to have you as another WC friend! As you probably know, I can't have enough friends (both cyber and RL). I have always felt that we are here not just for ourselves - but for each other.
speaking of friends ....
Hello, hello Shar. Now, have you had any luck finding your time of birth yet? I remember you either posted otr emailed a link
to this site that helps and now that I want it, I can't find it. I wanted to check it out. If you remember it, please post it again or send it to me again. My mind is discombobulated today but I think that nasty
medication is finally out of my system. I feel good too!
posted on January 26, 2001 12:57:49 PM new
Weighing in here, another Virgo separatist (even though mostly Libra, sun is in Virgo and I am seeing myself there too, big time!)
Yes yes yes to separate accounts, and cars, and God help him if he EVER touches my computer... There are four of us in this family. I buy four kinds of toothpaste, four kinds of shampoo, four kinds of every personal product we use.
I shower in the mornings, with clean towels every day. He showers in the evening, reusing my morning towels, and does not understand why I get so nuts at the idea of using them AGAIN the next day. It isn't that they've been used; I'd reuse them the next morning if no one else had been there in between. I just don't share things like that very well.
And yet, we've been married fairly happily for 27 years. Strange...
posted on January 26, 2001 12:59:32 PM new
I am back with another Scorpio tragedy.
As a disclaimer I want to say that this story is about 6 years old and I would not be even moderately surprised to learn that this gal transformed her life after these events. As nasty as it is, her potential was enormous and she could have turned on a dime and be soaring today. I hope this is the case, and I almost think that it is.
Anyway --- this is another reason to take care with Scorpio children. They feel pain in such an acute way - that too much of it, and some of them twist up like this next gal.
She was a Virgo and a really exquisite Virgo. She was a dedicated teacher, very heath conscious, rode her bike for miles nearly daily and she was always available to help.
She has a Cap rising and so was ultra responsible and he had integrity especially professionally but the problem here is that she had a Scorpio Moon and man oh man was it a mess.
On the upside she was keenly insightful into people and she used her skill to Virgo help people.
On the downside, she was paranoid, intensely possessive and venomous to an alarming degree.
So we met and I was always dating 2, 4, 10, or 20 men a month in this time frame. See I wanted to have a baby and I was looking for the father and running through prospects pretty fast.
She rarely dated, almost never dated when I met her.
Cap rising fear - Virgo unmarried woman for one things. Anyway she rapidly became more adventurous when she met me and because she was desirable she nabbed a man in short order.
I do not remember his rising sign (or more likely no birth time) but he was a Capricorn with an Aquarius Moon.
The cap was a natural match with her Virgo and Cap (all earth) and there was some hope to match the Aquarius because...
Aquarius likes a lot of freedom and Virgo likes time alone and so sometimes these situations work very well. Point is that there was compatibility.
Soooo she starts dating this guy and I am cheer leading from the sidelines. I met the guy, I liked him - basically I was neutral towards him myself but saw that he liked her and so had no problem supporting the relationship.
So they date a short time and she sleeps with him.
Now this goes very well I hear, but son of a #*!@, guess what she did?
He went in the bathroom (his house) and she turned his answering machine over and took the code off it so that she could dial in and monitor his messages.
Me - YOU DID WHAT??????
Now let me tell you for sure if this had been done to her she would have freaked - but she starts to justify this.
I am completely bewildered and tell he I think she was WRONG-O but she tunes me out, goes very Scorpio cold and I know the conversation has ended.
Now I felt a bit sorry for this guy, but my loyalty is to my friend and so I just hope that she would come to realize this was not okay but that is not what happened.
She hounded this guy day and night. Totally paranoid he would cheat, lie, betray her.
He had no intention of anything like this.
None.
As a matter of fact, he hung in with her long after I would have run screaming for the hills - of course he was unaware of most of her behind the scenes activities.
For her side - she was in painful shape. A person does not do what she was doing if they feel good, right? It was hellish.
Of course this guy broke off with her. His Capricorn was trying to tough it out but Aquarius cannot tolerate what essentially was the equivalent of an ankle bracelet for the purpose of monitoring. I felt he was lucky to never have to learned the full extent of what was going on.
Now get this irony.
One of the big points they spilt over was the fact that she wanted keys to his home.
They had been dating about 6 mos at this point, and he did not want to give her keys.
Do you blame him? I didn't.
Now this is what kills me.
She is hysterical telling me that he does not trust her!
I can't help myself.
I have to say, "but XXXXX, he can't trust you!"
She literally could not see this. She became livid!
See, she was a Virgo and so her image of herself was that she was good
Okay so she sounds kind of nasty I guess, but what made her this way?
Betrayal!
Like I wrote - it is the destiny of Scorpio to be betrayed. It is their job not to deteriorate like this woman did. They need to use their keen senses to determine who is trustworthy and let if go at that. This is not really all that easy.. it is the high expression of Scorpio and not all of them get there by a shot.
Anyway, end of story, the guy bolted and she was left writhing in pain and she started lashing out and really spewing venom. I am a pretty good friend and pretty hearty and so I listened for a couple months hoping she would come around and look in the mirror.
She did not.
I ultimately asked her not to call me again, so doubled her loss.
I am sure she took this as another betrayal, but like the guy, I hung in until I really had to leave in order to breathe.
FF 6 months or so, and I am pregnant.
That was what I wanted.
This gal had another friend.
Her best friend really - I was more on the periphery, friend for less than a year, stacked up against their friendship of 10 or 12. We had met several times but never really bonded, but we were very aware of each other.
So I ran into the best friend and she says she is engaged.
This is what she wanted.
Then to my shock, she asks me "how is XXXXX?"
Huh?
I tell her I have not seen her for 6 months or whatever it was.
She had no idea.
Seems she bolted in the same week or two time frame that I did.
Same reason.
She was sucking the life out of all of us.
So XXXXX"s life went down in a hail of bullets it seems. Total wipeout.
She was having a Uranus T to her Capricorn and this is why I think that the trauma of this loss might have done her in.
Killed her and let her rise from her own ashes.
Like I said - I hope so.
She had some stellar qualities, and if she could manage to transform the way she worked her Scorpio, the sky is the limit for her.
My point?
If you are the parent of a Scorpio child and you do NOT betray them this kind of scenarios is not likely to form.
The reason is that you will have taught them that some people CAN be trusted, as opposed to "if you can't trust your parents, who can you trust?"
Answer - NO ONE.
I will say one thing.
If you teach them the latter they will spend a good part of their life in grave pain, trying to find out different.
posted on January 26, 2001 01:03:21 PM new
VerySpecial?
Thanks nobs, but I gotta keep my name.
It is short for "Very Modern, Very Italian, and Very Good" which is and old Benetton ad slogan.
My sister came across a button some 10 or even 12 years ago in one of there stores and said she had never heard me more aptly described.
These years later, it is still so.
Glad you are feeling good.
I am upset about the earth quake and hope there is not another.
I thought about this Jupiter - move Saturn - earth.
See the energy out there?
This is a big deal.
posted on January 26, 2001 01:12:06 PM newBlushing at the references to my breastesses
Jps and Rawbunzel...as you know by now, I am libra and my job here at RT is to have fluffy balances, yes? BUT...I wonder why I have the same ideals you two do? I have MY own things too, lol. MY room, MY bed, MY dishes, MY pc, MY camera, MY car...my my my. He has his, I have mine. Isnt that strange, VM? (Of course, its all balanced...he has the same quality, the same amount, but whats his is his and mine is MINE).
posted on January 26, 2001 01:38:12 PM new
Maui, welcome to the club. Ditto for everything you listed, plus MY dog, HIS dog. Fortunately the dogs don't pay any attention to this nonsense, although I once had a dog who acted distinctly Virgo.
VM: do animals have charts? (No, no,I am not going to ask you to do one - grin.)
posted on January 26, 2001 01:55:01 PM new
Yes, absolutely animals have charts - same as people jps. Isn't there some animals you like better than others? Just like people, same synasty applies.
Non living things like businesses, countries and cities, and EVENTS also have charts. All are sensitive to transits also.
Maui - I will explore why you act like a Virgo, first opportunity.
posted on January 26, 2001 02:09:32 PM new
toke - yes there are similarities but also very different.
Scorpio rising is how you present.
Scorpio MOON is how someone feels. Your Moon is in Virgo in the 11th and so much more detached than typical Scorpio Moon.
OTOH, you have Venus in Scor on fire in the first and so your LOVE nature is pretty intense...!
Bottom line, both same, and different, but really Scorpio Moon is beyond compare in the zodiac as far as intensity of feeling.
When a person has a Pluto transit to their Moon they get a taste. Also, people with Pluto in hard aspect to the Moon, and people with 8th house Moons have some of this.
On another note, my ex husband just called.
He is stopping by with a trunk of stuff I left in another state 10 years ago. In an HOUR.
I did not expect this - totally out of the blue sky - how weird is that?
I wrote off the contents 9 3/4 years ago and don't remember what is in there except for an huge oil painting someone did of me (without my consent) that scares me.
I am a bit spooked!
It is like stuff climbing out of the damned grave.
He (my ex, we are pals) has 5 planets in Scorpio and look what T Mars has dug up!
posted on January 26, 2001 02:43:42 PM new
thanks for the good wishes on the chest... I truly have no idea what is in there.
On Scorpio and trust issues - this is universal with anyone who has a personal planet in the sign.
Your Venus in Scorpio or my Venus in Leo - they have play. They are not dismissable.
What I am saying is that Scorpio MOON is in is without a doubt he most intensely emotional sign and the primary emotion is PAIN .. Scorpio is not Venus/Taurus/Love - it has not a thing to do with that.
Your VENUS in Scorpio is what is called "debilitated" because Venus does not function so well in Scorpio/ The reason is that Venus wants love and beauty and peace and Scorpio wants an intense situation with plenty of turmoil.
Venus / Taurus / Libra want permanence. and peace
Scorpio compulsively weeds their garden, burns things to the ground, and looks under rocks.. .
Conflict there..
In your case, you are able to detach via your 11th house and see this intellectually.
This gal was could not, or maybe - not at that time.
See part of her process of living includes clearing her deck so that she can focus and have an intense experience. It is through this happening that she dies and is reborn --- the whole thing about the Phoenix soaring. This is the hope - they do not all make it.
I am fortunate to know two very well who have managed (my best friend B and my ex) and I'll tell you - when the chips are down these are the people you can call. They are loyal friends of the first order and no situation is too bloody for them. Good qualities in my book.
posted on January 26, 2001 02:48:47 PM newVM
I am sitting here wondering if our signs have anything to do with how we relate to other's in the chat world. For instance, there are some folks (like toke-sisand Shar) that I was instantly drawn to and whom I have grown to admire and like more and more and OTOH there are a very few who I can't seem to feel any closeness or relate to. This has nothing to do with whether I agree with what they say because I don't use that as a barometer. I usually see 3 sides to everything anyhow .
It is a "pull" or a "push" I guess that is hard to explain. I never thought about it being astrological, but that may explain it now.
I think that the Benneton logo fits you perfect but I would still add VerySpecial to it
Which reminds me, I have a Benneton Barbie up in my closet somewhere, I wonder if it has that logo ... I gotta go look.
posted on January 26, 2001 03:44:43 PM new
nobs - astrology is a premium predictor of how people get along.
It works like this.
If someone has their Saturn in aspect (math) to your Mars, you are going to feel frustrated by them.
Their Saturn bearing down on your Mars that wants to go, and they say things to you like "grow up" in so many words and this thwarts you.
From their perspective your Mars is threatening to them. Remember that Saturn is always in a spot of pain - so when you assert yourself (Mars) this most likely makes them feel inadequate and so they throw water on your fire - chill you right out, try to control you and will some success.
Okay - so this is a negative example at random but more positive planets (Venus, Jupiter, etc.. ) and the result of an interaction is more pleasant.
Now the other thing that matters is how close the aspect is. Math again.
When you meet people who have an immediate impact, for good or ill - these are people with their planets tightly aspecting yours (for good or ill / comfort or discomfort)
Since we live in the world we tend to interact with people who have close ties to us and let the rest pass by, however if you put two people alone on a island with no choice eventually as it is said ... things will start to cook..
Now the last thing is that even when you meet someone who rubs you the right way in many ways invariably they will grate on you somewhere. This is a situation where there is a lot of good things but perhaps your Mars squares theirs so you erupt sometimes or whatever.
Make sense?
It does, and it is all completely map-able.
Now - the one other thing to consider (ALWAYS) is a person's basic nature.
Some people like to be stimulated in ways other people do not and so seek out situations where they are tweaked. Other people avoid this at all costs.
The main thing you learn with astrology (well, one of them) is that people are how they are and you do not turn dogs into birds or whatever. It is extremely helpful to understand this because you can lose the expectation that everyone do it your way and that brings a fair amount of peace.
posted on January 26, 2001 03:59:02 PM new
nobs also..
As an example.
The houses. Where a person's planets fall in YOUR chart.
Say you meet someone with a ton planets falling in your 8th house.
This person will unnerve you some. In your subconscious..
Are you a Scorpio? You may like this -- it is your world.
Are you a Gemini?
You cannot get away from them fast enough, and it is no one's fault - it just is.
Anyway - it also matters WHAT planets where.. Not many people want someone Saturn falling in their 5th house / FUN and raining on their parade.
At least not if you a Leo, you won't like this.
Anyhow that is the basic deal. It is very simple but also complex because you have to merge the nature of the planet with the house with the aspect and understanding that energy - take it to the other person's chart and determine how it is going to act when it gets there.
In relationships I don't analyze all that much. I used to, I was learning but now I use for problem solving only.
If there is a conflict - how can it be worked to advantage? There is always a way.
Astrology finds in minutes what psychology can take years to uncover. That efficiency is something I really appreciate.
posted on January 26, 2001 08:58:49 PM new
Oh, well if the chest is empty~maybe you are supposed to be filling it up now?!?
Now, does the shift happen now at midnight or 1/27 pm?
I am thinking of doing a little sage burning~:>
posted on January 27, 2001 06:42:07 AM new
mimigigi - we are direct now, the change has occurred.
Now you start walking your new walk a step or two today and you gain speed each day passes with full speed reached in April when the planets leave there shadows.
Here is another bit I thought of for you - never know what is going to resonate and be helpful.
Eating for comfort is not making you comfortable...
posted on January 27, 2001 07:08:39 AM newVeryModern: The real way to drive a Virgo berserk is move one thing just a little off.
Before you wander off, I was wondering if I could email you ?
posted on January 27, 2001 12:44:50 PM new
Hiya snowy - very easy to see what is throwing your daughter for a loop and I am sorry I don't think that there is an easy fix. I can offer some insight though and a time frame for when things clear out for her, and also let you know that it is more than just the move causing her grief. In fact, she is getting fairly slammed.
I am going to write and figure this out as I go, because frankly it is complicated enough that I am going to have to work to untangle. I will start simple and do my best to keep it that way, and I may even succeed.
Now the first transitory thing going on (as opposed to her own nature which is static) is T Uranus square her Saturn Moon conjunction - where the Uranus (change / disruption) is hitting her Moon (home / emotional nature) at a hard angle.
That's the move.
The stage, where natal Uranus (change) is located is the 10th house (public) and so her social position changes dramatically and I imagine she has taken a fall socially because where ever she is now, she is not known.
Okay --- so this shocks her emotional nature which btw is where all her major challenges lie.
IOW, what she has at the moment is her Achilles heel plugged into an electrical outlet which is not considerate enough to send a steady stream of current - instead it send jolts.
Ow.
First thing to do is understand her Achilles heel.
It is there, it has always been there, it always will be there and when transits set off this configuration - the result will be challenge or ease, of this dynamic depending on the planet and aspect (easy or otherwise / trine square opposition, whatever)
Where her Aquarius Sun is social, progressive and humanitarian, conjunct Mercury in Aquarius - very VERY bright - her Moon, which is much more personal is a whole different situation.
Saturn Moon has to cope with feelings of insecurity and her particular situation is even more complex --- as he Saturn Moon conjunction is square a MOST POWERFUL Pluto in the Scorpio in the 8th house.
Most powerful?
Pluto (Scorpio planet) in the 8th house (Scorpio house) in Scorpio.
Yup. And it is exactly square her Moon, and this is the configuration under pressure from T Uranus applying.
Before I try to incorporate Pluto - I want to go back to the Saturn Moon..
This is Capricorn stuff (Saturn = Capricorn) ie 10th house ie the stage in your daughter's case.
Translates: takes public social (10th house) change (Uranus) most personally (the Moon is the premier personal planet) and it hurts and scares her (Saturn Moon conjunction) and disturbs her deeply (Pluto square)
Now I don't want you to feel like you have done something wrong in moving.
A scenario like this would have come about in one form or the other regardless of your action, because this is her life - and this transit does have it's purpose. The purpose is liberation and when it is all said and done she will like the result. This is guaranteed snowy - but the process will be choppy.
Most naturally we want to spare our children any and all chaos and pain but this is impossible and it is events like this move that help us (all of us) evolve.
For example if your daughter has a sensitive emotional nature (she does and it is acute) then when shall she find this out?
30 YO? 40?
That makes no sense.
The only thing to do as a parent is not berate her for who she is. Like "Suzy Q over there moved and she didn't have a problem...". Stuff like that is lethal.
All you can really do is validate her. "I know you are afraid and I understand why" goes a lot further than acting as if there is no reason for her to be afraid for example. Or "I know how hard this is and has been for you, but you are learning and growing" is much better than "snap out of it - you are making me uncomfortable".
That is how you help. By offering support while she goes through this most challenging stage of her life, and it is a bear by anybodies standards.
Okay - about this Pluto.
Pluto in the 8th is a superior placement, because it is in it's own house. This is the premier indicator of a natural psychologist and to have it placed in Scorpio the sign it rules it is the premier Premier placement and RARE. (Authentically rare )
Pluto moves slow snowy.
240 years to go through all of the signs, and not only that - it spends 30 years in Taurus but only about 10 in Scorpio in it's cycle. Very few people are born with Pluto in Scorpio.
One thing this means is that this generation (kids born with Pluto in Scorpio) are gonna be a major force in their lifetimes. They are a mega-powerful group. People like your daughter with Pluto in the 8th (because it is Pluto's natural house) are well positioned to make major contributions, the elite of the elite, but I am going off on a tangent. See--- I could write about this chart all week and not get 1/1000 of it down on paper - blah blah blah.
Okay, so if you read about Pluto in the 8th in books you will read things "able to heal" and "senses an earthquake before it happens". I will give you example.
I have an 8th house Pluto and a few years back I was just quaking and emailed an astrologer pal that someone born my year (they would have Pluto same degree as mine) was gonna do something major and make major news. I just knew it. I was transfixed and just waiting like a deer in headlights. I was upset and I did not have to wait long.
Two hours later Princess Di was killed.
We were born the same year.
The people who stand up and leave a room right before the 2nd floor falls down and crushes everyone have Pluto in the 8th house. People who just miss doomed flights.
I call it 'spider senses" and your daughter has this - and since tied to her Moon (Pluto is in exact square to her Moon) it can be a bit disturbing especially to her Aquarius Sun who prefers detached intellectualism to the sensing of intense and disturbing trends and happenings in the collective!
Okay - before I complete depress you - your daughter has marvelous potential. She is very smart and dynamic and she can lasso the Plutonian abilities to help humanity (this is an Aquarian pursuit) but like I have written regarding other children - she is not going to be able to integrate all this at her young age. You can see all this in her now (I am sure) but it in it's infancy. As I would say (precisely) to my husband "wait'll this little chick grows up - she is gonna ROCK." But that is because of who she is and she can't be who she is without going through what she does!
So the Pluto sq the Moon also gives Scorpio Moon flavor. The stuff I have been writing recently about Scor Moon applies, but with a twist.
See Pluto sq the Moon is prone to upheaval (gross example is VOMITING!) but Saturn is there like a big thumb - "don't you dare..." and this thwarts what would be a natural process for her.
What should we do???
Well she has natal help.
YES!
Where is Jupiter? That is what makes her feel good. Feed Jupiter, and also support her via her trines and teach her (in whatever way) where helps lies and always will.
She has a trine to the Saturn Moon conjunction that is acting up right now - from JUPITER in Libra (Venus) in the 7th house (Venus).
Coincidentally - she has a trine to her Pluto which is exasperating the Saturn Moon conjunction from Venus in Pisces in the 12th - where btw Venus is exalted in Pisces - which means just what it sounds like it means.
Bottom line..
Here is her mantra..
"All you need is love.. da da da.."
Of course as always - I am SERIOUS!
First Jupiter.
One thing to know is that when she grows up Jupiter in Libra in the 7th virtually guarantees a marvelously generous and benevolent partner for her. It also means that she will form partnerships in her young life that bring her great benefit. That is number one way you can help right now.
Support her friendships! She does not like to be alone.
This seems so elementary but I guess not because 9 times out 10 it is ME who facilitates my daughter's friends coming over. I make the calls, I drive both ways, accommodate it all - and so I mention this.
It is well worth it.
This will ease things for her.
See it is a partner / a peer , NOT her mother who is going to deliver her relief. What she can get in this way, she cannot get from you. Also ---- T Jupiter and Saturn will be in Gemini soon and this is going to support both her Jupiter in Libra and her Aquarius sun and so if she has not found friends yet - she will shortly - and this is FOR SURE. Help is on the way, and get them over to your house every chance you get. Every time you do - you ease her pain. Simple as that.
Okay - Venus in Pisces.
This is love of the highest order. She will give it and she will get it, make no mistake.
Your daughter is ultra compassionate. Yes, at the same time she is detached.
Let her save something somehow. A pet is what comes to mind. Make sure it is a hopeless helpless homeless one. This is her realm. I dunno, but think along those lines. Donate ART supplies to needy children. Something...
This will not solve all the problems, but it will help.
She has a long road to go here. She will not stabilize emotionally through 2002. This does not mean it does not get better because it does. She will acclimate. She will become used to the instability and in fact she will begin to experiment and thrive via it. The "instability" will be prominent but she is not going to be thrown for such a loop since she will be accustomed to it. It is new now, but she settles in.
This is like my hair lady's son. His jerkiness during his Uranus transit bothered HER more than it bothered HIM. Important for you to know she is going to come out of this fine.
Now I have blathered on and on and I am sorry to say I only have this 1/2 done.
Your daughter also has T Neptune conjunct her SUN and MERCURY.
I have not written much on Neptune transits and you are probably horribly overwhelmed already - but if one of your books covers transits read Neptune Transit conjunct Sun.
In a nutshell she has lost her identity - where Neptune is like a big eraser and her Sun is her identify.
She is disoriented. Feeling in the dark. Ego dissipated.
This is very difficult. The sun likes to SHINE, not be obscured. The stage is in the 10th house (her N Uranus and Neptune are EXACTLY conjunct) and so in a way I just kind of say "oh lordy..." to it because this is a mega mega double whammy, and PUBLIC, but it is going to pass snowy. Of course it is.
Tell her it is going to pass and that she is going to be marvelous.
Tell her she is not the only one.
That is the truth.
posted on January 27, 2001 03:16:22 PM new
Thanks, VeryModern.
Dead on again.
She's been just enough in a funk in the morning that I knew something is roiling round. This is very helpful.
[ edited by snowyegret on Jan 27, 2001 03:18 PM ]
posted on January 29, 2001 12:12:06 PM new
Good afternoon VeryModern.The sun is out,And a beautiful day in central Texas.I guess everyone took a little time out over the weekend,The thread was going to the bottom.That would be sad,To let it go....
away.A lot of good info on sign placements would be lost.Speaking of Geminis(I saw the other thread)I couldnt offer anything more as the ladys(gents?)offered excellent advice.I
had a Aquarian friend(deceased)That was so upset that the United States is Gemini.She blamed it for all our ills.I believe Spain is
Sag.There is also a Sag state.....Been so long I cant remember where it was.I remember being disappointed it was not Alaska.I have Alaska in my soul,And have, since being a little girl.You might know when I was older
I would find a way of going there several times.And I was upset every time I had to leave.Over time this feeling has dimminished
somewhat,And now I am in my comfort zone.Its amazeing to be in a place,That will make you feel so alive,So magic,electric and still a little wild.Do you have a place in your soul?
I wonder if everyone does?
posted on January 29, 2001 12:26:25 PM new
>>>had a Aquarian friend(deceased)That was so upset that the United States is Gemini.She blamed it for all our ills.>>>
LOL, this made me laugh junque - thanks. The US is a Cancer rising, I think. I don't look at charts of entities that often.
A comfort zone?
I gotta admit - I think I prefer the un-comfort zone, and it reminds me, my best pal B.
He told me once when I was dating EVERYONE in quick succession that I got into the un-comfort zone of men and what happened depended on how they felt about it.
He is a swift one, I'll tell you. He is one of those bas_____ that are never wrong.
Anyway - thankfully I find a few people here and there who can tolerate me and I am glad of it.
As to a zone in the world - I would have to say the Caribbean.
I like the sun and the water and the music.
People could come see me and I would tell them stuff, but I need to be "uncomfortable" on a daily basis I think.
posted on January 29, 2001 12:36:15 PM new
.. because at my core, I am an peasant Italian.
I will be walking around saying "chilie ver-dee" and my daughter will die a thousand deaths of embarrassment over my lack of sophistication .
posted on January 29, 2001 01:13:01 PM new
VM~ ? is there something you don't want to tell me in our composite chart or nothing that merits any comment? just curious....
posted on January 29, 2001 01:23:15 PM new
dejavu - nothing like that, not to worry.
I just never got a chance to even look at it, never mind assimilate and write.
I have spent many hours writing on this thread but I have personal things I need to focus on now.
Besides my family, the worm has turned with my beloved Yahoo and I have 400 auctions I have to process.
I just happen to be fully invested in a sinking ship over there and so need to re-configure my business completely, and the time is now.
